looks like you are describing a specific part of 'bay area' . lots of burbs don't have these issues.
So, I wouldn't say OP is describing a specific part. It's rather pervasive all over.
Anyway, just because there are some safe burbs does not mean what I describe is wrong. Our roads suck, we have a backwards property tax, its expensive to live in a decent school district and I generally feel pretty unsafe here.