In my (at the time occasional) drunken state I may have thought every now and a again, after 13 confirmations of confirmations surely you can just attack! But alas, it all falls flat: You have no way of knowing the final confirmation, the one before that, etc. until you are back where you started.
By the way, this only applies to lossy communication without feedback. A Whatsapp text syncronises via a server. As long as the server is up and confirms both sides, you can be quite sure the other side received the message. This is manifested these days in the form of the infamous blue ticks.