Why electronic payment costs money in the US? That's the cheapest way to pay and process payments. In Finland that cost's nothing and it's the default for paying large bills and payments.
EDIT: "for credit cards"
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It is a cultural thing to an extent though; there are EU countries where they’re still used to some extent despite the presence of a modern banking system.
Car could be SEPA (or equiv in non-Eurozone countries), bank draft, or even cash, though cheque is possibly less likely due to fraud concerns. Some people do it by actually physically going to a bank with the seller, I think (I don’t drive, so have never done his myself).
For in person stuff, where you live plays a role too; only a minority of countries currently have SEPA Instant, though that should change soon. For everyone else, it’s a day or so delay from when you send the payment in the bank app.
As for the $1000 TV, I would probably pay that at an electronic payment terminal with a debit card. If buying from a retailer, that's usually the way to go, no matter how small.
Buying a used car form an individual might happen in cash. Some countries will not allow cash transactions over 3000€. So depending on the price, it might also happen with a SEPA transfer.
I know that sounds stupid but it's the truth. There is no law against banks charging fees like this, banks like to make money (don't we all!), and (significantly) banks don't seem to lose customers by charging these fees.