I think a lot of it has to do with the experts accidentally talking past beginners, missing a lot of the basics before getting into teaching abstractions.
It also reminds me of the feeling I'm experiencing now about learning Elasticsearch. I'm amazed just how few JSON examples I can find online for the API. It was amazing how much it helped for a peer to say, "an index is a table, a document is a record and it's kind of like monogdb."
Furthermore this all reminds me of wrong atomic models in high school. Please just teach me a really simple but wrong explanation then slowly work out the details.