No One Gets Rich by Shunning New Cars and Lattes
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Those are pretty much the choices.
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TLDR Own and build things that generate income and store wealth (real estate, equities, fixed income, shares in a business, etc). Optimize for wealth, not status.
This won’t get you to be a billionaire. That requires mostly luck, inheritance, knowing the “right” people, etc.
I ran a small business you’ve never heard of, and left it four years ago with a not huge (<£1M) amount of money - but it was enough for me to acquire enough working assets that I have been able to retire from having to work in my early 30’s. I spend less than the assets earn, and because I’m free from having to work, I’m able to live in an inexpensive country, where my purchasing power is huge - freeing yourself from direct labour is the dividing line in my view - and you can get there by eschewing depreciating assets and instead acquiring earning assets. I don’t own a helicopter, I don’t have a yacht, my car is a beat up 1988 hilux - I could have those things, but then I would be poor again.
I did spend a lot on coffee, while running the business, admittedly.
I get that political history makes discussion of Marx's ideas a ridiculous hot potato. But the actual economics behind it is pretty banal and uncontroversial. If you own a business you can get rich without bound (or bounded only by the size of the relevant market), and if you don't you're trapped at whatever the market has set for wages in your profession.
That's, really, just sort of a "duh" point. This very website is effectively dedicated to that exact pursuit! "Make things people want so you can hack the system, find an exit and get rich" is just a restatement of "the bourgeoisie can lift themselves above the proletariat by ownership of the means of production" from the bourgeois perspective.
Whether that is good or bad, or deserves a revolution to adjust, is sort of a different issue. But no one seriously argues with the facts here.
And the point of communism (informed by late 19th century industrialization) was that this imbalance leads to inevitable injustice as proletarian wages get pushed ever lower by increasing automation and centralization. It wasn't even wrong, really, though it doesn't have much relevance to tech jobs today.
But to confuse "a brain" with "the means of production" is fundamentally missing the point of the concept.
If you're anything less than that, the best you can do is try to give your kids an upper class environment to grow up in. Or just opt out of the "money is happiness" game and find other things that fulfill you.
I’d guess that most people whom you’d assume to be fancy white upper class folks are broke, and many of the poor brown people whom you pitty are more prosperous than you think.
In my life I can think of a relative whose family was living it up: fancy house and cars in a desirable suburb, kids went to great colleges, had great stuff, etc. It was all a show, fueled by home equity and debt. Now they are retired and living in subsidized housing on Social Security, and the BMWs were replaced by a 15 year old Civic.
The I look at a gentlemen who recently passed away at my church. He was a custodian and handyman, his wife is an LPN. He left a significant legacy to his kids and a school, and by all accounts led a fulfilling and happy life, with many people whom he had touched in some way.
I guarantee you, and anyone else reading this, that with very little information I can predict with high accuracy how much money you make.
- Where you were born
- How much money your parents make
- Your health status at birth
- What college you went to, if applicable
- What you majored in while in college, if applicable
- How much your prioritize making money
I hate to say it, but the #1 predictor of your income is your parents' own situation. So if you want to make more money, be born to better parents. They will gift you the health, genetic advantages and socioeconomic circumstances that will statically make you succeed.
For everyone else, understand the rules of the game and bend them as much as possible. One thing I hate about working at Google is the sheer amount of out of touch engineers here. Everyone is so nice and friendly, but as soon as you talk about anything related to money you can see that some people are living, in a matter of speaking, on another planet.
EDIT: Looks like the post was edited to be removed. Basically the OP was saying he made 400K+ at Google and their significant other made another 200K as a car salesperson and they are both "run of the mill" at their jobs. The OP then goes on to say that if you try hard enough it's pretty easy to get to the position their at.
Ironically the reaction of removing the post is exactly the same sort of reaction I get in person in when money or money related matters is ever the subject of a conversation with someone who is an engineer at Google. If a non-engineer is in the conversation the engineer will just say life isn't fair and leave.
I’d also imagine those with the highest IQs in American society are academics in STEM fields, who are hardly rich by the measure of our current inequality.
The cost of living is different everywhere. You could live like a king in a country like Cambodia and be barely middle class in the US.
"How much money your parents make"
This doesn't really have to do much with success. I know plenty of people (myself included) that grew up with barely enough to scrape by and make much more than their parents.
"What college you went to, if applicable"
This helps, of course. Mostly because it is an example of being able to start and finish something that's difficult and stick with it until the end. Someone that can do this will most likely be successful in other areas of life.
You also have companies like Google looking down on anyone that doesn't come from an elite college, which only makes it more difficult for everyone.
"How much your prioritize making money"
This is a big factor, but it is a choice. I have a friend that is college educated and intelligent. Hates the idea of making money and works a minimum wage job at 35 years old. The only reason she isn't living in poverty is because her husband is a manager at a major corporation and makes really good money.
"For everyone else, understand the rules of the game and bend them as much as possibly"
What a terrible outlook on life. The Internet has made it so anyone can start a business with almost no money. Instead of taking advantage of this, too many people waste their days on social media and instead try to lobby the government to give them a pay wage increase.
A lot of people like yourself, who grow up poor say this. However you're wrong. It's not to say that your success is predetermined entirely by your parents' socioeconomic status, but it's a large (and according to many scholars, the largest) predictor. Also, I have to say the usual disclaimer that correlation is not causation and all that.
In general I'd say hard work is necessary, but not sufficient to succeed.
Source: https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/hendren/files/mobility_geo...
Yeah, well, I have plenty of examples that prove otherwise.
"In general I'd say hard work is necessary, but not sufficient to succeed."
Hard work is always necessary for success. Unless your parents or relatives are giving you money..nobody will just hand it to you.
Slightly off-topic, but curious. Are you quoting salaries, or the amount you've been earning including stock/options you've been granted and how it has performed?
Congratulations! You’re in the top echelon of your field, and it’s a lucrative field. Of all the engineering gigs in the world, you’re at one of the top companies making a top salary.
I know it feels weird because from the inside there are so many FAANG employees. You don’t feel special. But you are! This is a special position you’re in, and it’s great that you’re taking advantage of it.
In high school I experienced severe depression. My first psychiatrist prescribed me antidepressants that didn't work well and caused me to have auditory hallucinations. I went on antipsychotics that made things worse.
It took two years to resolve everything and find a doctor and a medicine that worked for me. During this time
1. My mother was a homemaker and could spend a large amount of time driving me to doctors that were far away from home. She was also able to coordinate extended leaves with my high school (I missed an entire month straight at one point).
2. My parents made a lot of money. We were able to afford a psychiatrist who didn't take our insurance, spending thousands of dollars a month on bills.
3. My parents and several extended family members had personally experienced depression and were able to empathize well with my experience rather than telling me to suck it up. I had continual support from them.
If some of these things go the other way, I don't graduate high school.
Add this to all the myriad of other privileges I experienced along the way and I very much did not end up making a mountain of money at Google by just trying hard.
I think most riches come as a combination of hard work/smarts and right place and right time (or luck), in varied proportions.
Really, it's easier than ever to start your own business (own your production). Most people reading this could begin today.
It's even possible to retire in your 30s via an average salary. Look into Financial Independence, Retire Early (FIRE).
Is not having to work anymore not a sufficient definition of rich? Though IMO having control over your schedule and not having to work for someone else is pretty close too.
I can't see housing as "means of production".
Like I've got a friend, 40ish, works in education hiring teachers etc on a normal salary but every 5 to 10 years has bought a place on a mortgage and now it's worth that. She's not even entrepreneurial especially, just had the sense to do that when the opportunity was there.
TO ADD: I'm not saying nobody has a budgeting problem, I'm saying that those who don't take seriously the advice to curtail spending probably have more of a jealousy problem than a budgeting problem.
Now could I start this today? It would be way harder for me to start this today. The housing markets where the good jobs are have gone bonkers. But pretty much everyone I know who's bought modest houses since the early 90's as grown significant equity.
I'm excluding people that bought mcmansions or non 30-year fixed mortgages for houses they couldn't afford. Most of them got cornholed in 2001 and 2009. I think if you can do it, you should do it. The instances that led to fucking were rare and predictable.
Simple, right. But how does this play out over a longer time horizon? How about the family fortune? Is having a mortgage you can barely afford to live in a decent school district and increase your childrens' earning power a wise investment?
Send your kid to a good private school or homeschool co-op (essentially the same thing) and stop doing dumb things with real-estate. Be involved in their hobbies and try to communicate the important ideas you’ve learned, no school can replace that and it’s one of the most powerful ways you can improve your child’s future. (This is intuitively obvious, but I think there are also a number of moderately recent studies to back it up.)
[1] Actually, I'm pulling this number from average private school prices. And the average private school is probably only as good quality as "nice public schools [that] aren't great." But I don't have a good comparison since the public school district I grew up in contained several schools in the top 100 in the nation.
There’s not just a monetary cost to moving to a nicer school district, often that can mean a lot more driving which means absorbing a lot of risk (accidents, maintenance) and burning more fuel and time.
No, it's about spending wisely. Ask not "can I afford it?", but "is it worth it?" (taking into account, yes, your financial situation). This article hasn't done much to convince me that a brand new car is worth the huge markup.
Taking financial guidance as a middle class wage earner from a trust fund baby is probably also a bad idea.
Those struggling need to take some of the blame or the situation will never change. I know many people that if you gave them a million dollars today, they would spend a million and one.
In the North of England an expensive car might cost as much as a house.
In London it might be two years' rent.
If you live in an area with high rents then almost everything else is irrelevant by comparison unless you really throw money about, but that's not true everywhere.
“No one accomplishes X by doing Y” does not imply that the goal of life is X.
Yes, you most definitely can get rich by not drinking lattes. This article is a disservice.
Maybe for the author of this article, a $6 latte is "within his means". For most of the world, it's not because they're not saving 10% of every paycheck, so they should minimize discretionary spending until they do.
Also related, cars go down in value. They are cool to own but by no means an investment. They are a utility to get you around and more specifically to your job that actually does make you money. The biggest rule though they stated first is huge. If you are making 300k a year, buy that 50k car or save up for a relatively "short while" and get a 100k car.
The problem with buying a $50k (or whatever the vehicle you want) car, is that you will probably grow bored with it and want another one in two years.
And chances are that $50k car is going to depreciate like a rock. And be expensive to insure. And you'll also have the bad habit of spending even more money on modifications/customizations etc.
Buying a brand new, expensive vehicle isn't the worst idea if you keep it for ten years, drive it every day, etc. But if it's a thing you drive a few times a month, is impractical, and you get rid of it in 1-3 years for the newest model, it's financial suicide.
I never got $35k of 'enjoyment' out of a new car purchase. And they aren't brand new for very long.
After building a career, worrying about lattes was a waste of effort. But buying a nice car would have limited my freedom. For example, I would not have bought as much investment real estate and I would probably be >$500K poorer.
But worrying about buying new cars probably won't make sense for me soon.
Avoiding lattes and new cars was, in fact, very important for my finances (in the past, but not now). The article acknowledges the importance of individual circumstances:
> What should determine personal spending is the totality of the buyer’s financial circumstances.
But the headline risks misleading people.
It begins with a straw-man: "as I financier I often encounter people who equate buying lattes and new cars with financial suicide"
It then boldly introduces a distinction: there's a difference between spending and spending beyond one's means... literally, and I quote:
> Simply saying no to consumption is lazy and thoughtless. What should determine personal spending is the totality of the buyer’s financial circumstances.
I don't think anyone lives in this simple-minded universe, torn between the deadly sin of exuberant spending (on things!) and the austere life of impoverished simplicity.
Money is a means. It has no intrinsic worth. We all understand this, keenly.
I think it's common knowledge that new cars deprecate extremely quickly, so for most middle class individuals it's better to go with a used car to avoid losing loads of money in the long run.
A medium latte costs at least $3. For daily drinkers that's about $90/month, which is at least triple the value of the beans and milk it took to produce.
Frugal living alone doesn't make you rich but I think it can really help you if you're in debt (like most Americans)
Keep it simple.
That tells you that it isn't easy to save an adequate balance for retirement, despite what Suze Orman and all the other avocado toast shunners tell you.
I wish we would talk more about how it’s possible than how hard it is.
It is a mistake to conflate retirement accounts with investments accessible in retirement. This is no different than the "Americans have no savings" trope, which conflates having savings accounts (which are an anachronism that many Americans have no use for) with having access to cash-like liquidity.
Median net worth in the 55-65 age bracket: 187 kUSD. Effectively, it's much less than that because the lion's share of these 187 kilodollars will be owner-occupied housing. Yes, you can sell up, but you'll always need a roof over your head.
The political system will have to deal with the retirement shortfall in the next 10 to 20 years.
-- Don't send your kids to college
Those two are especially stupid