Pew did a comprehensive study of urban, suburban, and rural communities (link below). Their empirically-backed findings are pretty divergent from these common stereotypes.

https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2018/05/22/what-unites-and-d...

There's even an entire portion of the report that basically boils down to "everyone thinks others do not understand their community's problems but is pretty confident they understand other community's problems".

https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2018/05/22/how-people-in-urb...