Finally, those duties are even stronger when the non-profit is the steward of a non-replaceable community commons; there is no way to donate to a Wikimedia Foundation competitor to improve Wikipedia.
> If you don't like it, stop donating
Think about what you're saying. People can't complain unless they donate, but if they don't like what's happening they should not donate. That sort of reasoning is how you get non-accountable dysfunctional non-profits.
> Or better yet, write a patch, or email them suggestion for a better player.
I can't write a patch. It's not in my abilities.
Write them an email? That isn't a serious suggestion, because you know it would accomplish nothing. That's not where these conversations take place.