Definitely agree, though I respect the effort/desire to learn Erlang first given the fact the first time I saw Erlang code I was so confused/put off by it, the syntax was so foreign (not c-like, not lispy), variable names up capitalized, atoms are bare words, source files are just tons of functions, the tooling isn’t anything like modern languages (though since Elixir and hex/mix, that situation has gotten way better), then you’ve got all the OTP behaviors which are entirely unique to Erlang/BEAM, Erlang’s documentation though excellent and extensive isn’t by any means beginner friendly (IMO), and to top it all off, unless you’re coming from another pure functional language you have to deal with working in a new paradigm. Basically, Erlang is intimidating, which is unfortunate because how powerful BEAM and the OTP behaviors are.
However, Elixir wraps up the power of the BEAM and OTP in a much more approachable package. The syntax is much more familiar (thanks Ruby), provides tooling on par with (and better than some) popular modern languages, the language itself also provides more modern user friendly features (macros, pipe operator, protocols, etc). All with a community that is very beginner friendly and willing to help.
If you want to make use of OTP/BEAM, Elixir is by far the best way to enter. When you learn Elixir, you will also learn the major OTP behaviors and concepts (Supervisors, GenServers, Applications, Registry). Eventually you’ll find that there are even more goodies in the beam not directly exposed by Elixir (genstatem, ets/dts/menisia,timer,digraph — are a few of my favorites). Fortunately though, you can call Erlang modules/code directly from Elixir (and vice-versa), so you’ll then eventually dip your way into playing with Erlang modules as needed and when you approach the docs after having experience with OTP with Elixir, you’ll notice a lot of things are familiar and the Erlang docs become much less intimidating.
Basically Elixir is a much easier entry point to Erlang. Erlang is a great language, but very different with a lot of new concepts and which can kill your motivation to learn how awesome the BEAM is, so if you want to learn Erlang, by all means give it ago, but if you find yourself frustrated/confused with it, try Elixir for a while, then come back to Erlang and I bet it will be a lot easier.
When I initially saw Erlang, I was put off, the docs were confusing and I would avoid them at all costs, always try to look for an Elixir wrapper. Now after having worked with Elixir a lot? I frequently find myself going to the Erlang docs first to find a solution instead rather than hex or whatever. I can easily grok my way through an Erlang projects source, which previously was completely foreign to me. Will I ever likely write anything serious in pure Erlang? Probably not. Am I saying if you learn Elixir you will also just pick up Erlang? Absolutely not. What it will do though is make the process of learning Erlang (if that’s the goal), and it’s absolutely massive built in library of tools/abstractions/patterns that no language I’ve seen comes close to replicating an order of magnitude easier.