absolutely not. You do not need to display security to have it, that's a large part of what I meant when I said people like us value different things.
https://www.amazon.com/Millionaire-Next-Door-Surprising-Amer...
https://www.amazon.com/Millionaire-Next-Door-Surprising-Amer...
If you met these millionaires next door, they signal this security in many different ways outside of material wealth.