Why do all theories about aliens start with the implication that they're similar enough that they developed the way we did, they think like we do, have similar senses, brain structure and locomotion.
Any aliens that have evolved to any kind of level of intelligence would have done so under the conditions specific to their planet. Given the huge variation of life on Earth over its existence and that humans in their current form, or even animals in their current form, have existed for such a tiny insignificst fraction of time that it seems kind of preposterous to assume aliens elsewhere are anything like us in the slightest.
Humans have problems anthropomorphizing animals as it is, but when it comes to aliens it just seems like everything starts with, well of course they must do the things we do....