1. The value that is invalid for older browsers (including older versions of Chrome!) is None, not Lax. It is always (as far as anyone knows safe to explicitly set SameSite=Lax in all browsers, assuming your site is ready for that.
2. The latest Safari (v13) has changed their behaviour to match the latest spec.
See this article for details on detecting/dealing with it: https://www.chromium.org/updates/same-site/incompatible-clie...
TL;DR: old (but not too old) Chrome responds by rejecting the cookie entirely (which Google says was an valid interpretation of the spec, at the time of those versions) and old (but not too old) Safari responds by interpreting the None value as Strict (I think there is some debate on whether the spec allowed this back then, but at this point it doesn't matter/I don't care).