I think of it this (probably wrong) way: If a particle is sent to me, and its pair - for the sake of argument, the matching photon pair that comes from one beam of light through a prism, is sent to you, they will be continue to spin in exactly the same way since they started the exact same-but-mirrored way. So if we each look at the photon at EXACTLY the same time, and nothing has slowed down either photon's travel, the spins will match. In order for us to see it, we have to observe it - and that takes some sort of sensor that is definitely slower than the speed of light (as was the photon's travel through the prism). So the moment we see them, they'll match, but unless we know the EXACT way the spin was altered by both sensors and reconstruct that, anything beyond the initial spin we caught is forever unrelated to the spin of the other photon.
Likewise an eavesdropper would have to alter one of the photon's spin in order for it to reach their eavesdropping sensor, and at that moment, it is useless. Same goes for the true recipient, because the photon passing through the eavesdropping prism changed the spin simply by reflecting it away from its original polarization, and so the "key pair" will no longer match.
Think about how networking works. If your stream of photons is treated essentially like binary (but better), then your packets will all end with a checksum of sorts. If the packet contained an error, the checksum won't match, and you resend the packet so eventually the message gets there.
It's not a very "spooky" factoid when you look at it purely mechanically. I believe this is also why we can coax out quantum behavior from water, electricity, and other things that move around easily. We can even demonstrate quantum weirdness using 3 polarized lenses like you get from the cinema.
The randomness you can envision with all this travel and bouncing and sensing adds up to a lot of noise, making it an expensive problem to solve before things get practical. Early IP networks were pretty crappy. Look at how they go now! The information is light speed. The reading of it is simultaneous. Splitting one of the protons into another pair leaves you with 3 unrelated protons that are not read at the exact same moment (a little simplified - there is math involved to calculate when is that EXACT moment).