Ask HN: Salary offer significantly lower than consulting arrangement
I've been working with startups for the past 12+yrs, many of which have been YC companies. I've been a consultant for the majority of that time.
I've been working with a YC company since June as a consultant for $10k/mo flat rate. If I take any days off, I pro-rate my invoice accordingly.
I received a written offer today for a full time role - something I've been looking forward to! However, the offer was for $90k with 0.1%. I would have to relocate across the country to accept the job.
I'm left feeling like I'm being asked to move, surrender a significant amount of freedom (I have no commute now & can travel as long as I'm online during business hours), and take a pay cut at the same time. A big part of me thinks I'm being selfish by focusing on what I'm losing - rather than what I'm gaining (I LOVE the people I'm working with). I don't think they'd be interested in extending my current consulting contract if I didn't accept the full-time role.
Would it be fair to ask to maintain a $120k salary (equiv to my $10k/mo contract) plus benefits? I realize that technically this is a raise, though I feel like the raise is justified by the move across country + loss of some freedom.
If you were in my shoes - what would you do?
Thank you!