However, none of the people doing this really care why this is a thing, they care that, for some reason, this is a thing. It's vastly more profitable than nearly every other type of advertising, and since nobody _really_ knows how that works either, they just follow their tried and tested patterns that work.
Obvious _you_ wouldn't be this dumb. But it turns out that, on average, you are exactly this dumb ...
It doesn't really affect the people who already bought it since the conversion is complete, and the wasted impressions are trivial compared to the cost of implementing more complex tech to keep things in sync.
Perhaps there's a secondary effect of negative reputation from seeing ads for stuff you bought but the data doesn't bear it out.