Website constantly times out for me, stuff doesn't load etc.
Not sure if that's because of traffic due to this post or not.
At the moment people, myself included, use "self-host" for both.
Whenever you expect to get a traffic spike, you can always turn proxying on for a day or two and turn it off afterwards.
I'll have to agree, there are few but very vocal.
https://selfhostedsource.tech/self-hosted/?page=2&search=web
(Not sure if a bug or due to load.)