So many people immediately dismiss relational databases, then re-implement all that functionality in their apps with various bugs and performance bottlenecks.
ORM is another bad technique. It supposedly promises you that you don't need to know SQL to use, and that is true for the simplest examples, but you absolutely have to know it for anything less trivial, then you have to figure out how to write query in ORM to get a desired SQL statement (it makes it very difficult to use advanced SQL functionality), and that's not the end. ORM constantly will make unnecessary SQL queries and by default request all fields, even if you don't use them, adding additional performance bottleneck.
In my current workplace thanks to ORM we make on average 10 queries per request and at peak generate 1Gbps throughput from/to database because of those inefficiencies.
I think the way to go is SQL support in IDE, I recently saw PyCharm with DataGrip where if you configure it to connect to a database it will start recognizing SQL in string statements and start treating it like code (so you now have autocomplete, refactoring etc). I think this is probably the proper way to do it and I wish that other IDEs would have similar features.