Enthusiast communities are probably not the most objective group of folks, so I'd take what they have to say with a grain of salt.
Regardless, I fail to see any evidence that supports the assertion that you also need therapy, that you cannot benefit substantially without it. Those who have literally no first hand experience with psychedelics are not exactly objective either, but it sure doesn't stop them from confidently passing out advice.
Honestly, the fact that you assumed others were talking about "have a guide or 100% failure" is disingenuous on your part.