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Seems like he lacks basic social skills and expects women to date him because he owns his own house. He feels guilty and "like a monster" hitting on or asking women out because of this thought process. He himself said he had been successful in the past -- why not continue that and make yourself happy?

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> Seems like he lacks basic social skills and expects women to date him because he owns his own house. He feels guilty and "like a monster" hitting on women because of this un-empathetic, objectifying, and entitled thought process.

What if his brief statement about financial stability is to deal with claims that he needs to first take care of himself because women aren't interested in highly unstable men who can't take care of themselves?

What if, no matter what he states, people immediately jump to conclusions which require assumptions with no evidence and include quotes that he didn't make?

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