For the 'best of both worlds' scenario, use Slackware Linux in place of FreeBSD.
Slackware is one of the very oldest Linuxes, and traditionally used a BSD-flavored 'init' system, rather than a System-V syle init, or even the newer 'systemd'. It has traditionally concentrated on being extremely stable, and more slanted towards server work, though I used it for many years as my main desktop.