Or you can take a massive pay cut, tank your career, and go live in the middle of nowhere.
Sounds great.
The other big thing is the lack of job opportunities in smaller cities, solvable via working remotely but still relatively uncommon, particularly for new hires.
Working remotely is an option here (if you go this route, look for a 100% remote company though).
It still sucks and I hate working, but it's the least bad path that I could find.
You can easily make 150k in this environment, where a 250k home is 3k sqft in a good neighborhood. I'm making quite a bit more in the management/director track.
Considering the ancestor comment and how the situation seems to weight on that person, I would advise to try and find a better situation, because from personal experience, when you start grinding yourself for a job postitve outcomes become very unlikely.