Personally, I find languages like Scala to be right there in the middle, where neither performance nor FP expressiveness is sacrificed severely.
That makes Scala flippin complex like C++ was, but it is probably the best attempt to bridge this gap if we all just want to learn "one language to rule them all" and incorporates both FP and imnperative/mutable style techniques that milk the hardware for what it's worth as well as give you the power/expressiveness of FP.
Of course one can write an operating system in Haskell... just as one can imitate functional style programming in C... or we can come up w/some "middle ground" language that takes the cake from both worlds and call that "the best".
My point is, this quest or journey for the best language/paradigm never ends and always shifts across the years as hardware develops and as we discover better ways of doing more with less (e.g. the crux of FP).
IMHO, ultimately you have to pick an appropriate language (tool) for the job at hand. If we forget that languages/programming paradigms are just tools... then, you'll forgive me for saying, we become tools ourselves. Or... fools, rather.
To me, whomever has realized this trade-off, is a true zen master of programming/engineering...not the one who espouses one paradigm/language over another. That's just me tho... YMMV.