> A primary job of the database is to keep itself from getting corrupted
That would be where the road splits. If you handle the database as a very fast and structured storage application, a lot of these assumptions go away, with then a different set of tradeoffs.
Some data corruption could be fine if you can guarantee the critical cases, just as bugs in the code are fine as long as the useful cases are covered.
I remember a database with scheduling entries in it that could get duplicated depending on the sharding, but it didn’t matter because the app handled the case gracefully.
I think understanding the tradeoffs that match the best the use case is the most important point, always assuming that a DB has to guarantee integrity can be a burden preventing from looking at all the options.