No high ambitions. No lust for good food or sugary water. No compulsion to impress anyone, including clients and bosses. No raging at things I don't take action on.
I'd like to go to bed, calm, not worried about the books I need to be reading or the projects I should be finishing. I'd like to actually be bored, and accept the boredom as a fine thing.
I had the same problem in the past and as a hacker I made a plan to fix it. I can tell you that it worked really well and I barely recognize myself from 5 years ago. But this change wasn't easy and was related to lots of areas in my life: friends, family, fitness, nutrition, work, interests in life. More than wanting to date someone, I invested in becoming someone people want to date.
Although this sentence (about the kind of people people want to date) from La Bruyere's Characters flashed cynically into my mind a moment later. :-)
A man who is vain, indiscreet, a great talker and a mischievous wag, who speaks arrogantly of himself and contemptuously of others, who is boisterous, haughty, forward, without morality, honesty, or commonsense, and who draws for facts on his imagination, wants nothing else, to be adored by many women, but handsome features and a good shape.
Also it reminded me of George Clooney writing somewhere that he started getting acting work after he totally changed his mindset in auditions–from asking, pleading give me something I want, to seeing himself as offering his talents, contributing something unique to the production–he had something they wanted, or should.