I don’t know, is it? I used to be a “code monkey”. To be honest I think the main reason I ended up in that position was that I saw myself as socially inept and thought that there was some kind of “big picture” that the mgmt/power focused people saw and I couldn’t see. I don’t any more, and my latest title is C-level (for a 100 person startup though - so nothing fancy).
People love to set social norms that limit how much use others can make of their talents and abilities. But that’s usually not in the company’s best interest, and those norms seldom have the backing of senior management.
With that said, of course you should be tactful and show your coworkers respect. People deserve respect not because they are smart, but because they are people.