I'm only vaguely aware of this myself, though there are a few places I've learned to look.
A history of the Brooklyn Bridge and its builder notes, apparently as a form of admiration, that he designed every detail down to the nuts and bolts. Thing is, that's because he had to. There were no standard fasteners. (The book doesn't detail this, it's just a passing reference I happened to catch.) David McCullough's The Great Bridge: https://www.worldcat.org/title/great-bridge-the-epic-story-o...
Herbert Hoover, as US Secretary of Commerce, instituted the National Bureau of Standards (now the NTIS, I think), which among other things standardised weights, measures, and yes, fasteners. Rather hagiographically addressed here: http://lcweb2.loc.gov:8081/ammem/amrlhtml/inhoover.html
Joanne Yates has written on such thrilling topics as the evolution of the interoffice memo and standarisation of business communications (and though I'm writing tongue in cheek, I really do find the work fascinating), and has been working on a book on standards and their evolution. I've not read it but it may be of interest. Engineering rules : global standard setting since 1880 https://www.worldcat.org/title/engineering-rules-global-stan...
Simon Winchester has a book on machining and measurement, also not read, though based on his previous works it should be excellent. The Perfectionists: https://www.worldcat.org/title/perfectionists-how-precision-...
There was a fairly popular book on containerised freight shipping that came out within the past five years or so called The Box That Changed the World which looks at the standardisation of containerisation: https://www.worldcat.org/title/box-that-changed-the-world-fi...
Somewhere someone commented that one of the computer containerisation standards was simply a bunch of people coming to an agreement as to how to organise and and do things. My history with Linux has taught me that various packaging formats and systems (and the infrastructure surrounding them) have profound consequences and impacts, for users, adminstrators, and software producers.
I wish I could point to a single source and say "read this", but I'm really not aware of one presently.