Unfortunately no, and often it’s not trivial to legally install one.
But yeah, go experimental and then you never have to worry about these things. Lots of great value kit planes out there.
We're not talking about jetliners here. We could easily be talking about planes that are suitable for clear conditions only.
And yes, small planes used to have cigarette lighters.
There's an airworthiness directive from 1979 that required owners of a bunch of Cessna models to either disable the cigarette lighter or add a circuit protection device. There's a copy of that AD here [1]. It includes a big list of Cessna models and serial number ranges, which can give a good idea of how common cigarette lighters were.
[1] http://www.cessna172club.com/forum/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showfl...