When the Government Seizes Your Embryos
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So let's all sustain for a second our disbelief and ignore all the value judgments, governments and churches involved. The crux of the issue is that the law changed to require that artificial insemination be available only to couples.
In my own country it seems adoption is also only available to couples (either legally or de facto), and it is near impossible for a father to win a custody case when divorcing.
I think the wider trend here is prioritizing some ideal of what would be the best outcome for the (future) child and most of society believing a single parent would not do as good a job as a couple, on a significant averages comparison, and that men are inferior child rears as well.
I don't know if it is true, but living in a democracy means common wisdom, anecdotes and tradition bend scientific and informed decisions.
The crux of the issue is that the law changed to require that artificial insemination be available only to straight couples.
Also, see the case where parents got permission to use their dead son's sperm to create a grandchild. Presumably the parents picked the partner to conceive the grandchild.
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/05/22/nyregion/west-point-cadet...
The same can be said of the children in question, who are not simply the property of the female lawyer. Although they share her DNA, simply sharing DNA does not give her the right to do with them as she pleases, just as my mother does not have rights over me (and neither does my father of course). Under this framework, no one is telling the lawyer what to do with her genes. They are telling her how she is to interact with other people, who in this case, happen to be her children and the children of whichever men fathered them.
In the case of the West Point cadet, they took his sperm and created an embryo after he died. He didn't explicitly consent to an embryo being created at all.
When two people who may disagree on the personhood status of an embryo can agree that this policy is bad. It must be a pretty terrible policy.
tl;dr several reasons:
1. the church considers the reproductive faculty to be exclusively for marriage in the marital act. The marital act must be "procreative and unitive" to be licit, and IVF (and a variety of other fertility processes) frustrate the unitive nature.
2. IVF as currently performed always ends up producing multiple embryos.
2a. The embryos are genetically tested and those that don't make "the cut" (whatever that might be, right now; the goalposts can move and can depend on the parents or various other things) are simply discarded/destroyed, and the church holds that this is infanticide/murder.
2b. The embryos that make the cut but are "extra" go into a freezer, but the church holds that these are human beings that should be accorded the dignity of any other person. They might be used at a later date, they might not.
Even if there were a technique developed (which development the church would also consider illicit because the research would require consuming more embryos) that resulted in exactly zero "extra" embryos, point 1 above still stands.