Is Enlightenment Compatible with Sex Scandals?
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In case it helps, I'm genuinely interested. It seems to me that if enlightenment is a thing, there's no reason to assume that it necessarily goes along with conformity to conventional morality. In fact it seems likely that such a person would be less constrained, because less subject to fear of social pressure. But I don't know.
From the second link above;
"Abandoning uncelibacy, he lives a celibate life, aloof, refraining from the sexual act that is the villager's way."
Also, see this sutta, as per point 9:
https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/mn/mn.022.nypo.html...
Enlightenment is the abandonment of sense desire, among other things.