I aspire to conduct myself so that whenever I die I will be remembered as something more altruistic, or at least ethical than a corporate raider, or a politician who tried to sleep with his interns, etc.
> Cause it's easy to get the estimate of a person by the people they date/marry.
I think the second one is true. Not as true as some things. But if it is true then the first is true, since the second is more universal.
> Many people believe they can estimate a person by the people the person dates/marries.
It's possible Hurd believed this. Whether he thought he was moving the needle in his favor by any of his actions is probably unknowable.
I see why you read the comment the way you did, and I suggest there is a different reading.