IQ is BS. 25/hour is pretty good in most zip codes. Don’t under estimate just how large the income percentiles are, especially for singles. I’ve probably had fewer relationships than you and I’m more than likely older. Modern society erected some serious issues with interpersonal relationships and formations therein. How are we going to meet when there’s so little time and money left over after we’re done fulfilling our societal or personal needs (chores, self care, etc)?

This is also part of why I would never go anywhere near wrecking a relationship by being someone’s “other guy.” It’s too important to society to respect when two people are able to work through all the hoops society places against decent, healthy relationships to go around affecting them when they occur. Edit- Hell, I donate monthly to a charity that benefits single women and mothers to at least feel like I’m doing something for the women of the world that I’m likely to never share my life with.