You could say the same things are said from the 'other side' of the debate, I'm sure people say all these things from both sides, you cannot control everyone on such a big movements/issues. What I'm sure is that I haven't seen any leader say all that adjectives to anyone.
"Not to mention the anti-David-Star that where in fact the yellow ribbons".
Well... 'anti-david-star' what a nice way to describe the same ribbons (with different color) that people wear on the world cancer day.
The independence movement has always talked about the State/Government not letting people decide. It's not about hating someone because they think different than you. It's about an exercise of democracy.