2. Humans aren't good at predicting what will make them happy.
3. Work comes in quanta (9-5 job, either you have one or not). For some reason there are few options to take half a job, if you want to.
I am?
I honestly don't care what they do, how much they make, etc; if they are doing better (financially), great for them.
Myself? I'm what I call "Dave Ramsey Debt-Free" - I have no unsecured debt, I have no car payments, I use my credit cards wisely and pay off the amount owed monthly if not weekly. The only debt I have is my mortgage, and honestly I could pay it off in full tomorrow if I wanted to.
Many of so-called peers who might be making more, aren't anywhere near as lucky. Some of them I know struggle and live paycheck-to-paycheck. I used to be there myself. I can empathize with the situation.
Buying a house changed all of that. My wife and I changed our financial situation completely. It took a few years of ramen and beans, but we did it. Anyone can do it - but the first step is to stop competing with your peers, and stop trying to "keep up with the Jones".
In the end, when you're dead, you're dead. Nobody is going to say "well, s/he had more than their neighbor/peer over there, at least" - and the fact is, even if they do, you'll be dead; you won't care.
Insane example: just the average cost of processing the legally required paperwork for partitioning and buying a plot and get all permits to build is higher for me today than it was for my grandfather in 1960 to buy the land and all materials to build a house. As measured in net income - hours of work after taxes. And I'm in a higher income bracket than he was.
even in software, there are people working less than full-time. there was a thread about this just the other day.
Well yeah obviously I wouldn't be able to live working @30% doing food delivery or cleaning bathrooms...
> there are people working less than full-time.
There are some for sure but so far I haven't found a company accepting my requests. It's probably highly dependent on the country/industry.
So, I wouldn't say "no one will ever employ you at 30%", but its definitely not easy and it does come with a cost beyond what the fewer hours would suggest.
Yeah they will - you just haven't figured it out yet (but you can - if you're willing).
/Bob Dobbs can show you the way...
After cutting basically everything else except the cellphone bill because you basically can't get by in the modern world without a phone and an internet connection. (And that replaces the landline bill they would have had a few decades back.)
edit: before the downvote storm, have a look at https://thecharnelhouse.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Raoul... and https://libcom.org/files/The%20Society%20of%20the%20Spectacl... it's doing a very good job at explaining the shift we went through after WWII, when everyone was promising 5 hours workdays and retirement at 45.
I'm as down on capitalism as anyone, but one of HN's very good guidelines is that you should be more thoughtful and substantive as the topic gets more divisive. Dropping the word "capitalism" in response to someone asking what's wrong on a forum full of capitalists is never going to go well.
Put a little effort in.