I get paid and pay 20% then 40% on the rest (banded)... Then as soon as I buy practically anything I'm taxed another 20% on top of that.
A corporation pays 19% and then those profiting from that owe 7/32/38% (depending on their total income).
Nothing about it is misleading.
You might argue, "That'll dissuade investment!", but when $17 trillion in negative yield bonds [1] (a third of the bond market) are communicating, "Hey there, not a lot of investment dollars needed kthx", that argument falls flat. Your investment dollars aren't needed. There is nowhere productive for them to go. So why have public policy treat their income differently?
[1] https://www.bloomberg.com/graphics/negative-yield-bonds/
1. shift earned income into capital gains (e.g., private equity carry, small business earnings into equity vs salary)
2. defer taxes (401k, mortgage deductions, 1031 exchanges on real estate, etc)
3. avoid taxes (shift jurisdictions)
4. get accountants, lawyers, and lobbyists to figure out additional ways to lower tax burden
I'm not saying the government is efficient or that 100-200k incomes should be taxed more, I'm just saying that's the game as it stands. Tax expenditures are the ways the government gives (rebates?) money back, mostly to the wealthy.
But now if you tax the hell out of that vehicle, then it limits the ability to move oneself up even further.
Everyone talks like it is only the rich that invest. This just isn't true.
As you said:
She's paid a salary while he's living off capital gains and they're taxed at separate rates.