You do not notarize. Apple does. You submit the app to Apple for them to notarize. Pretty sure you don't need a Mac for that.
This is a real issue for me, as my open source project is a cross-platform game development tool. It used to be that it was possible for someone to click a button and get Linux, Windows, and Mac distributions - but now the Mac side is proving more and more difficult.
Maybe you do, I can't find any way besides using Xcode, either on the GUI or using "altool", which comes with it.