[0]: https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/transportation/sea...
[1]: https://la.curbed.com/2019/8/6/20698162/parking-minimums-dow...
[0]: https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/transportation/sea...
[1]: https://la.curbed.com/2019/8/6/20698162/parking-minimums-dow...
In London generally on-street parking is already at- or over-capacity, so adding an extra couple of hundred to a thousand people wanting to park their car in the surrounding 3 or 4 streets is not just NIMBY-style petty complaints of "I don't want someone parking outside my house" and so on, but more "there physically isn't enough space for even more people to try and park in the already over-capacity on-street parking - get a reality check, this isn't going to work".
I think there is a difference between those two responses
If I gave out free hot tubs then there would pretty quickly be a hot tub shortage. The problem is that parking is the leasing of public land for insanely low amounts for private property storage. You are forcing everyone around you to pay for your private property storage because you don't feel like paying for it yourself.
After all, can I pay the council the £100 a year (or whatever tiny amount it is) for an on-street parking spot so I can store my hot tub? Have a little garden? No? Then perhaps we shouldn't let you store your metal box there either unless you're willing to pay market rate for the land.
Keep in mind that any time you say developers must be forced to add room for parking, they were trying to add room for humans and NIMBYs told them places for cars to sleep were more important.
That's because you could use your same argument about any public service. We pay for it in spades through income and council taxes.
Deliberately semi-quoting your argument:
You get public services for an insanely low price (healthcare, firemen, police, libraries, schools) for your own private benefit. You are forcing everyone around you to pay for you to not die/not have your house burn down/not get robbed/learn/get your kids educated etc because you don't feel like paying for it yourself.
Can't afford your own healthcare/fireman/police/library/school? Then perhaps we shouldn't let you use them unless you are willing to pay market rate for the service.
For each service that is public there's usually a good counterargument. Is there one for public subsidizing of private car parking?
If you put cars right at the center of urban planning, you'll always build cities that require people to own cars.