Please don't take HN threads into flamewar.
I understand the feeling you're expressing completely. But if you just import this resentment into the thread in an unprocessed way, it acidifies discussion and makes it harder for people to be thoughtful and share information across divides. Not just the gender-ideological divide, but any divide.
We detached this subthread from https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=21139988.