That sounds suspiciously like making things a lot worse. How about helping them connect with the rest of society instead of codifying their existence?
> The structure, discipline, and sense of purpose the military gives you is the greatest inoculation of the anger that comes from involuntary celibacy in young men.
Incels typically feel inadequate. Structure, discipline, and sense of purpose can counter that.
Suicide rates among soldiers is already high enough.
If anything we should be encouraging people to leave the force and join back with the civilian population.