A bit presumptuous to assume the OP is a gay male, no?
It's no more presumptuous to assume OP is a straight male.
Right. If someone asks what a good dating app is then the better thing to do is to not assume sexual orientation or gender and recommend an app for all e.g. Tinder/Coffee Meets Bagel/Hinge?
I mean, just thought it was weird for a complete stranger to recommend to another complete stranger a gay hookup app for men...
I just recommended Scruff first because that's where I met my partner, it's way more than just a sex app! They have events and a tinder like mode where you can only match with other people looking for a relationship.
In the absence of other evidence, gay male is about two to four bits of entropy more presumptuous than straight male.
That doesn't make it okay to assume everybody is straight. Some people really are gay.
how does giving an anecdote about a dating app experience presume anything about the OP?
The OP was asking for dating app recommendations...I thought it was strange for someone to reply back with a positive review of a gay hookup app for men without knowing the gender or sexual orientation of the person asking for the recommendation when there are plenty of dating apps that cater to all people. shrug
Scruff is a gay dating app, and those are very different from their straight counterparts. Any anecdote about them is basically irrelevant to straight folks.