http://ocw.mit.edu/OcwWeb/Electrical-Engineering-and-Computer-Science/6-171Fall2003/CourseHome/index.htm
Philip Greenspun described this course as "how to build Amazon.com all by yourself"
the textbook is available on amazon here:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0262511916/pgreenspun-20
The curriculum is not language specific so you'll also need a book on Lisp, Ruby-on-Rails, IIS/ASP.NET, Apache/Tomcat/Java, or whatever is your choice of technology.