DUI/DWI is a felony in most places in the US.

Crossing the border illegally is a misdemeanor. Seeking asylum in the US is not a crime.

If it were about "personal responsibility", people wouldn't be hyperventilating about brown people coming to work for shit pay. People like you wouldn't be devising rationalizations not to feel responsible for their government separating children from parents and keeping those children and parents in cages while denying them sufficient medical care and basic hygiene supplies.