I learned a different lesson, which is that you can win big by being willing to get your hands dirty. After all, Steve Pavlina's site is like a burlap bag filled with a mixture of turds and diamonds. I'd get over my disgust for fecal matter pretty fast if I found such an object.
(For example, his advice regarding waking up to an alarm was invaluable to me.)
You don't have to trust somebody to learn from them.