First, you need a hard bright line as a norm. It's the only thing a corporation will understand, and you can see how often they try to abuse or delay it anyway. Disclosing after the deadline is the only thing that gives the deadlines urgency and means that things which
are urgent also get handled quickly. If there isn't a working process for handling as serious a vulnerability as this within 90 days, then there probably isn't a working process for handling serious but time-sensitive vulnerabilities within 90 days either. Use it or lose it.
Second, these things are a lot more correlated than you think. Look at Spectre recently: those bugs have been in there in various ways for what, 20+ years? Yet something like 3 different research groups all came across variants of it simultaneously. There are pervasive correlations leading to https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Multiple_discovery - people use similar tools like fuzzers, they follow similar research topics and gossip, certain things become 'obvious' to everyone simultaneously, and so on. OP might not think that anyone else is working along similar lines, but how could they know that? How should anyone interested in Spectre have known that there were (at least) that many other groups finding similar problems?