Social media is a cancer on humanity. It is not benign, as many people still assume. Almost every time the medium is studied, the results show it makes people less happy, susceptible to propaganda, and generally shittier people. I've got an idea, if you really want to keep up with people set up an email list. Or just realize that you don't actually want to keep in touch, as evidenced by the fact that you never actually bother to call the people you claim to want to stay in contact with.