That’s quite depressing, since this is really the whole point of calculus.
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Calculus really should be introduced with as much emphasis on physical modeling as possible. Differential equations are at the heart of the past several centuries of science, and understanding the basic ideas involved is crucial for everyone doing any kind of technical work, if not every citizen.
I like this version, which uses discrete computer simulation to cut down on some of the obscurantism of a formal heavily algebraic treatment, and lets students jump right into ideas which are significantly delayed in typical university math curricula. http://www.math.smith.edu/~callahan/intromine.html
Or do you mean that you never connected "derivative and integral are inverses" with "integrals are areas" and "inverses are opposites"?
You might check out the sequence of activities in the Integral chapter of this book to get another perspective on the FTC.
I totally agree. It's the entire point of calculus, and it's what sets the entire field of Differential Equations in motion!
I wish it surprised me. But I suspect that your experience is more normal than not.