1. 90% of what you look like is what you eat (not how much, what) rather than, say, how much you workout or your genetics.
2. Optimize what you eat before you optimize how much you eat. It is more important to eat good clean food rather than eat small portions of still bad food.
3. Exercise fast, short and incredibly intense.
#1 is something I say to catch them off guard and eliminate excuses (genetics).
#2 is the real issue. The past 25 years of diet information in the US is basically misinformation. We were told that we had to eat less fat and cholesterol and we would be healthy. Science has shown this not to be the case but we are just now catching up to that science.
For instance...this is an ideal diet for nearly everyone: 1. Eliminate grains, sugars and most fruits (high-glycemic index fruits for sure: think watermelon) 2. Load up on veggies, eggs (best protein source around) and meat (high fat meat is great...no worries) 3. No oils other than coconut or olive 4. Unless you are trying to gain weight, minimal starches (potato/sweet potato etc) 5. Some nuts...don't go crazy with them. 6. some fruit, but only of the berry/cherry variety 7. minimal diary
http://www.paleonu.com/get-started/ is a great place to start.
#3 is b/c low intensity exercise doesn't really do much for your metabolism...it is a slow calorie burn that lasts as long as you are doing the activity. High intensity workouts boost base metabolism for as long as 36 hours.
I wish I knew this when I was a teenager...feels like lost years battling diet and weight only to seek the information later and realize the errors of modern conventional wisdom. At least I know early enough to correct for my next 50+ years.