I have mixed feelings about the people component. Many of the people I work with are smart, focused, rational and personable. I look forward to meetings with them. What I struggle with is all of the 'overhead' of the work. The time spent discussing, rationalizing, prioritizing, justifying. It saps a lot of the enjoyment out of the work.
I'm trying to figure out how to turn that into a problem-to-be-solved.
The good part is that the experiences have helped me realize I would gladly be compensated less if it meant being able to focus more on the actual work that directly translated to positive ROIs for the business.
We live in a world of increasing complexity. Especially in tech, it has become increasingly apparent that no one can do everything.
It is inevitable that you will need to collaborate with people if you want do something that will impact the world. There is no way around it.
I’ve made peace with endless meetings by just going to them and working and only half paying attention unless they need me for something.
However, I think that, for people who really despise meetings and all the coordination with other people, startups are a place to be. There's just way less stakeholders there to allign for any given initiative, plus the founders are super-conscious about wasting time and money, so they minimize devs involvment in meetings that could be handled solely by management/product people.