I can recommend Pimoroni's fan shim. They provide a python project that allows you to set temperature thresholds to kick the fan in so it's not on all the time. It's not silent but it's pretty quiet.
Here's the link if anyone's interested: https://shop.pimoroni.com/products/fan-shim
If you (optionally) install the daemon then it can use the Pi SoC's internal temperature sensor to control dynamically based on need.
That's good to know. Thanks for the update!
Failing that I'd hope Adafruit will have them in stock soon! I'm one of the co-founders of Pimoroni, drop me a line if you need any other help.