E.g., things distinguishing how email is used from how text-messaging is used:
1. Email is potentially long-form. I sit down and type it from my computer. Text-messaging is always short, although possibly it's a series of short messages. A series of short emails, by contrast, is an annoyance; it's something you try to avoid sending (even though you inevitably do when it turns out you got something wrong). Similarly, you don't typically hold rapid-fire conversations over email.
2. On that point, email says, you don't need to read this immediately. I expect a text message will be probably be read in a few minutes, and probably replied to later that day (if there's no particular urgency). I expect an email will be probably read in a few hours, and probably replied to in a few days (if there's no particular urgency).
3. It's OK to cold-email people. To text someone you need their phone number; it's for people you know. By contrast, email addresses are things that people frequently make public specifically so that strangers can contact them.
So what am I supposed to do for secure messaging that replicates that? The best answer I've gotten for this so far -- other than PGP which is apparently bad -- is "install Signal on your computer in addition to your phone and just use it as if it's email". That's... not really a satisfactory answer. Like, I expect a multi-page Signal message talking about everything I've been up to for the past month to annoy its recipient, who is likely reading it on their phone, not their computer. And I can't send someone a Signal message about a paper they wrote that I have some comments on, not unless they're going to put their fricking phone number on their website.
So what do I do here? The secure email replacement just doesn't seem to be here yet.