I'm actually all in on PostgreSQL at this point -- I'm not bothering with trying to use vanilla SQL and worrying about switching databases but I have that luxury on my side projects. PostgreSQL has a lot of interesting features that I am happy to use and I frankly never really relied on using vanilla SQL in order to be database server agnostic anyway (not saying that doesn't have a place and maybe someone will reply with how it was absolutely essential for their X but...).
To be clear, I still am all for portable SQL queries but I no longer worry about relying on a feature only PostgreSQL offers and/or taking advantage of things it offers that are not part of the standard.