> I mean, they can be, but is there any reason to believe they are?
Yes, there is: women stepped forward.
> Have male leaders of similar protests been treated better?
Men either haven't experienced the same, or they are keeping their mouth shut.
In both scenarios, women should be supported. If men step forward, so should they. They didn't so far (or at least, not in large enough numbers for such a protest to be reported), so based on the data we have available to us, the problem affects women way more than it affects men.